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We'll Take Manhattan
E Remember Manhattan
Woody wasn’t wrong
Remember Manhattan
Before you say so long
Remember Manhattan
What did Woody say
He said, Remember Manhattan
Before you walk away
Remember Manhattan
Remember Manhattan -
Richard Marx & Fee Waybill

I read your letter today and it was quite amusing and made me feel good that you know what you do out there in my job people respect it and get it. What people don't understand is that every city employee has been made responsible for its passengers everyday on its buses and trains. It takes a second to loose lives. So, thank you for that and I will show this to my boss and let him read it. Once again thank you for my one minute of fame... the bus driver lady Evelyn better known as E!
THE Bus Driver

Life is becoming normal. I don't say, "returning to normal", because I can't see us ever returning to the salad days of pre-September 11. toastBut we ARE settling down into everyday life and adapting to a new set of circumstances.

We no longer feel so guilty if we have a good time, and old friends are meeting up again over dinner and a wine. There's a feeling of solidarity - the people-connection is coming back. Strangers are talking to each other again, on the buses, in lines at stores and subways. In the days immediately after the attacks, people stared ahead, avoided eye-contact as it the horror was too much to be shared.

So this week we had dinner with friends, enjoyed the theatre and I received email from Evelyn, the bus driver from The Other Side of the Barricades.

Life is improving but things have changed. The "look" of the city and its people is different. The New York uniform of shades and black is brightened by scarves of red white and blue, and sparking flag broaches (pins) or tri- color ribbons.

Women tend to wear flat shoes, even on non-dress-down days. I assumed it was because of the long waits at bus stops, now crowded. Many people now avoid the subways, preferring to be able to see the sky of our gap-toothed city. I thought that was the only reason till a colleague told me she wore them as you now never knew when you'd have to run.

But really, it isn't all that bad. We can now feel we are doing our civic duty when we patronize a restaurant or go to the theatre. People aren't storming pharmacies for Cipro as reported in some of the press stories in Australia. People are surprisingly calm.

Although conversations usually contain some reference to the attacks, there are now other topics of conversation, and a definite determination to get back into the swing of things.

Thoughts of September 11th cannot be too far away from our minds - the presence of the National Guards and police at major landmarks and bridges are constant reminders. Even the New York Marathon has had to adapt to the constant threat. Participants are advised not to take cups of water from spectators, and security will obviously be tightened.

People living below 23rd street can smell Ground Zero. I asked a friend what it smelt like and her answer can back without hesitation - "Death".

But while some people are fleeing the city, the majority of us will stay on. Tougher and more cynical, we are here for the duration.

Post"WIMPS!" screamed the New York Post in its typical cross between Murdoch sensationalism and New York wise-crack, when Pataki relocated from his office during an anthrax scare.

And on TV, pondering news of yet another anthrax case, a well-groomed blonde anchor woman pondered, "I wonder if this is more of the work of Bin Laden and his gang". She sounded somewhat like the good little school girl having to put up with the naughty boys hiding out in the local cave. Annoying and snotty-nosed but more an ever-present nuisance rather than a serious threat. If only...

One of the nicer qualities of New York has always been its tolerance of the wierd. Priding themselves on being unphased by anything, New Yorkers have been known not even to glance twice at people walking their pet llamas, or exhibitionists painting themselves green. The unbalanced have been tolerated and the homeless allowed to camp almost anywhere, But now the odd people of society are looked at with unease and suspicion. The trust in one's fellow man has suffered along with the New York ease and confidence. I think it will be a long time returning, but have a feeling that it will.

New Yorkers are copers. We are not going to be beaten by a bunch fanatics hiding out in caves.

Start spreading the news.

Your Say

Vicki - ex New Yorker

For all our time spent in Melbourne since last October, I've struggled with my feelings for the locals here. Pre 911, I heard numerous anti American sentiments from people who should have known better. And rather than shut up, I'd defend the Americans. But to no avail. It was as if I was the unpopular girl on the block, who'd lost perspective as a former expat, and changed teams. That I couldn't see the American blemishes they were familiar with, gleaned from second-hand accounts and experiences.

I've become disappointed with the so-called tolerant Australians I've come across--the pseudo intellectuals and former immigrants who've made a good life for themselves here. What had happened in the 3.5 years when we were absent from Australia shores? Was racial vilification acceptable now that our politicians had tapped into our racist psyches and vocalized once unutterable thoughts? Now, everyone was fair game- from boat people escaping persecution to Americans going about their everyday business and being successful to boot.

Thankfully, post 911 we've heard less anti-American sentiment. I must admit I was amazed that 10,000 Australians could care enough about Americans to take time off work and attend an interfaith memorial service at Rod Laver Stadium recently. Maybe I was wrong in the first place. But when you hear one "They asked for it" comment, any optimism flies out of the window. How can people say these things?

So, even though we're safe and sound in Melbourne, I feel uncomfortable living in this city-an outsider yet again. Few people are encouraging us to leave.

Sometimes, I wonder what is worse. Taking a chance with life and possibly risking danger, or remaining here in Melbourne with no real job prospects and dealing with people I can't relate to anymore.

Chris - New Yorker

I've been deeply disturbed by some of the sentiment coming out of some Australians but unsurprised on the whole. As I had mentioned in my post, this kind of sentiment has been omnipresent in the Australian press, but it becomes much more noticeable in the face of such a tragedy. Obviously, it is not my belief that the Australian people are devoid of compassion. As I have mentioned, my wife is Australian. She views New York as her home, and she is as upset as everyone who calls this city their home.

I think that this phenomenon is indeed a manifestation of tall poppy syndrome and as such, it will be difficult to rectify. The only true unknown for me is the "percentages". I have even experienced this sentiment via my wife's family, who are by and large well-educated people. My father-in-law considers himself to be a bit of an intellectual. I consider him to be a bigot who is spoon fed what he wants to hear by the ABC and The Age. How many people out there feel this way? Perhaps I've been exposed to certain individuals who have these beliefs and it skews my perception as the "but" people being overrepresented in the population. On the same hand, I sometimes feel that the ABC, Age/ SMH are agenda-driven, rather than a reflection of popular support and that feedback columns reflect a loud, but vocal minority. Quite honestly, I really don't know what to think sometimes.

With respect to the "Australians Abroad" website. I agree with the observations that capture the insularity of a great many Americans. I can imagine that it might be annoying to hear people parroting Paul Hogan and Foster's ads, but in my opinion, that beats the hell out of mindless, knee-jerk antipathy and constant, unbearable dehumanization.

Anyway, I've got a few clips from the internet that I've been collecting as a kind of primitive sociological study. By the way, this little project is not limited to Aussies, as I have lived and traveled extensively in other parts of the English-speaking world. I'm interested in cross-cultural studies and history and I think that the opinion of the man in the street is a fascinating piece of a work in process.

Brad - an Australian in Samoa

I'm sorry to hear what you have to say and can only agree with you 100%. If this is the case I'm embarrassed to be an Australian living overseas.